2. You interfere with the way he spends money, saying, “You’re wasting money again!”
“When she starts to criticize the way I spend my money, I just want to ask her who she thinks she is.” Your boyfriend might become distrustful of you if you start to interfere with his financial decisions, small or large. You could mention something like “I’d love for us to go to a fancy restaurant some time,” to encourage your boyfriend to save.