5 Ways to Turn Down His Invitation Without Discouraging Him from Asking You Out Again

2. Suggest an alternative date when you’re available.

If you want him to invite you out again, let him know when you’re available. “When a girl gives me specific dates that work for her, I know she’s not just being polite,” explained a guy in his 20s. If you can’t give him specific dates, suggest a timeline, such as, “I’ll have more time after [date].”