8 Ways to Signal to Your Boyfriend that You Want to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom

4. Kiss him but don’t use your tongue

“It’s a sign that she’s not comfortable. I started to realize she wasn’t satisfied with our sex.” This will raise the alarm for him. In the case where he does ask you, “What’s wrong?” don’t answer him immediately and let him meditate on how the sex got boring between the two of you. Even if it gets awkward, it might help you both in the long run.