9 Ways You Might Accidentally Make Your Ex Think You Still Want Him

8. Tells him, “I can’t find a boyfriend”

“It sounds to me like ‘let’s get back together.’” When she talks about how she can’t find any new guys to date, it makes sense that the guy would assume that she is saying, “So how about we…” Even if you haven’t met anyone new, there is no need to specifically tell him unless he asks.