9. Go to a social mixer, even if you’re not into it
‘I went with the intention of just stuffing myself with food, but this guy who kept hanging around me ended up becoming my current boyfriend.’ Going to gatherings can produce unpredictable outcomes. In fact, going with the attitude of ‘I’m through with men’ can allow you to judge guys with a calmer and more objective eye.
When getting over a breakup, it’s important to stop focusing on yourself, and instead turn your attention outwards. Interacting with trusted friends can be a good way to take your mind off unpleasant memories.