9 Reasons Why He Doesn’t Say “I Love You”

7. He feels like saying it would be too flattering.

“I don’t want her to get big head! (LOL)” Some men are unwilling to share their feelings because they fear that it will give their girlfriends the upper hand in the relationship. Be the first one to say, “I love you.” He may let down his guard and respond to you with “I love you too!”