Home Things You Can Say During Sex to Heat Things Up 9 Things to Say When You Confess You’re a Virgin 2. “It’s my first time…” “I’ll feel less pressure.” This can help loosen up his nerves, and he will try and treat you more delicately. Definitely be honest with him rather than hiding the truth and getting nervous. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9