Home Phrases that Hurt a Guy’s Pride During Sex 9 Things Guys Wish You Had Said Before Sex 4. “I’m not wearing any perfume. Hope I’m not smelly.” – A definite turnoff “It turned me off.” It is a turnoff, although a warning might help soften the blow. It might help to carry something in your purse so this never happens! 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9