2. She shows good manners
“She was polite and respectful, and I was really happy.” Guys who find girls are talking to them politely will think, “She’s treating me really courteously,” and their self-esteem will get a boost. If you’re too aloof and seem to be looking down your nose at him, though, he’ll feel it’s difficult to get close to you, so it might be good to mix a bit of laughter into the conversation now and again.