5 Benefits of Going Out with a “So-So” Guy

4. You enjoy being sought after.

“For the first time in my life, I realized how wonderful it is to be pursued,” admits a woman in her late 20s. If you have always taken the initiative in starting relationships, you’re missing out. Try turning the tables and experience what it’s like to be desired. You can also learn a thing or two about pursuing a love interest by watching from the other side.