5. Your approach is way too serious.
“She seems way too needy and clingy. I bet she gets jealous easily. Please, slow down!” a man in his late teens begged, laughing. Even before he indicates yea or nay, you have worked yourself up into full gear ready to dash through the courtship. It can be a total turn off for him. You need to put yourself in his shoes and turn dial down the knob a notch or two.