8. Motivate him by dropping hints about your future together: “If we get married…”
“I know I have to do better when I have responsibilities.” At times, the pressure of “marriage” can help guys achieve better results. Don’t present your argument as a “condition” that has to be met, because your boyfriend might resist and think, “Who do you think you are?” Instead, you can be cute and hint that this is what you “hope” will happen.