5. Sending a message with the reasons for your breakup afterward: “This is what I hated about you.”
“I just kept reading it over and over and getting more and more upset,” said one guy. By going out of your way to put the reasons for the breakup into writing, you end up hurting your ex over and over again. Rather than blaming a boyfriend after the breakup, it’s better to tell him what’s bothering you while you’re still dating.