9 Times When Men Fall in Love Again with Their Long-Term Girlfriends

7. He learns that she doesn’t really like spicy food (or, on the flip side, bland food) but she’s been trying to adjust to his preferences

“I was filled with both guilt and joy.” Men’s hearts ache when their girlfriends make hidden efforts to adjust to their preferences. On the other hand, if you remind him too much that you are making an effort to adjust to his hobbies and personality, he might see you as annoying.