9 Types of Women Guys Want to Be with Because She Helps Him Grow

3. She works hard to become her ideal self.

“I knew I needed to do more than just working part-time jobs when I saw my girlfriend. She works hard to make her dreams come true.” Some guys were influenced by their girlfriend’s goal orientation. Have a clear idea about who you want to be, and do your best to become that person so you can be your boyfriend’s role model.